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Lessons Learnt From A Failed Relationship


The aim of relationship is to know our partner better before making the final decision of "marriage".

You need to note the followings so as not to make mistake some predecessors made. 

1. If your partner cannot love you for who you are, you need to let go of such relationship, regret will end it. No one can change you completely, part of the change is to accept you for who you are and that is what love does. So find the person that completes you. 

2. It is better to be single than to be in relationship with wrong person. When you start noticing that your partner is wrong choice, you need not to manage thinking there will be change. This person was/is under his/her parents and didn't change, don't expect to be the miracle worker.


3. Any relationship that requires you to be quiet or lower version of yourself, relationship that makes you feel low about yourself is a sign you need to move away.

4. It takes two to tangle, one person cannot make a relationship work. Once you start noticing your partner is not ready to make the relationship work, do not stress yourself at all trying to be the super being, just let it go, you will later be accused of forcing yourself on the relationship. Let it go.


5. Do not manage red flags. When you notice red flags, you need to act immediately. Red flags are attitude or attributes you cannot manage, attitudes that is/are generally not acceptable, you need to run, don't even think you can handle it.

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