LADIES: DON'T MAKE YOURSELF A TARGET
This write up is inspired by Starla Neal's youtube video here.
Some men often wonder why they post pictures on their social networks and are not getting much likes like they desire, but if a lady post pictures exposing her neck alone she gets plenty likes let alone a sensitive part of her body.
Naturally, women are magnet, they attract men's attention. Check it, most of the likes they have gotten is from the men.
You post almost naked picture of yourself and you expect to be attracted to someone that will love you for the rest of your life.
First, often in this case, your appearance shows the kind of person you are and you will only attract the opposite sex of your kind, those who will only enter into you and come out without looking back.
Those who will tell you sweet things because that is what you want, deceit.
Those that have a responsible woman at home but wish to explore other ladies who are meant for experiments like the one you are portraying yourself to be.
Naturally, you are beautiful, you do not necessarily need to go naked before you are noticed, you are wonderfully made for a good and responsible man but you desire to look extravagant for someone else that will only make you feel useless after he had done what you called him to do through your nakedness.
There are ways you still dress and you will look more than sexy, yet reserved that no one dear say nonsense to you.
It pays to be responsible and reserved, good life is beyond social media.
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You will only be addressed the way you appear, and only those that looks like what your appearance speaks will target you to prey upon.
Stop deceiving yourself to get good men when your appearance is attracting the irresponsible ones.
It pays to look responsible and reserved.
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This is disgusting writing! You are completely slut shaming women who should be able to confidently wear what they want. Instead try teaching men to stop fetishizing over female bodies and seeing them as sexual objects. It's completely fine for a guy to be promiscuous but when it comes to a girl thy're a slut. The message you preach is so backwards and the title proves just that. Blaming women fro making themselves a target instead of blaming men for not respecting women and not understanding that women aren't there for their sexual pleasure.
ReplyDeleteI sincerely appreciate your comment. If you are a keen follower of this blog you will know I, bamisepeters is not bias. This is the first post you are reading is why you are saying this, check my posts, you will see that i usually teach my male readers on how to respect women because they deserve it. But i cannot be preaching that they should respect women when some women are doing the wrong thing too. I speak to everybody, today might be for woman, tomorrow might be the turn of the opposite sex. I apologize for any harm the post might have caused, but i just need you to read positive meaning to it and will love you to stay glued. Your comment is important to me, i appreciate.
DeleteIt's a two way street. I believe you can dress any way you want and still be respected. I know because I dress the way I want (not really conservative) but do not get disrespected. Yes I get compliments and do get cat-called sometimes but it all depends on how you carry yourself, your aura, and how other people naturally are. :)
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DeleteYes, i do believe that dressing shouldn't be the yardstick for judging who someone is too, but the way i take it many do not take it that way, but it goes a long way to determine the kind of man that calls. Thank you for your comment, it means alot to me.
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