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5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Settle For A Full Housewife


What is good for one goose like I usually say is good for another goose. If the man can fetch for the money to take care of the home, the woman too should deem it fit to also fetch "little" at least to supplement the effort of the man.

At least, what a man can do many women will say they can do best (on a lighter mood though).

I know some men disallow their woman from working, however, a store or super market can be helpful here. Even allowing her to engage fully in handwork is enough to make her have time to take care of the home.

Here are some reasons I think a woman should also work.

1. To supplement the effort of the man

In this harsh economy the effort of the man alone may not be okay to feed the whole family.

The price of good have skyrocketed, yet, no increment in salary, but you must still adjust to the prices of those goods when you need them.

With the little effort of the woman i think it will be good to serve as subsidy.

2. To fulfil personal needs

Women are always in need of one thing or the other, and waiting for the man always wouldn't speak well of you.

At times some men get mad when you ask them for money for ordinary matches let alone pad to guard against menstrual flow.

3. In case the man couldn't leave up to expectations

Many things could cause this even though we pray against them day-in-day-out.

I think people in marriage need to think about not just the present but future. What happens if the man becomes jobless unexpectedly or paralysed due to accident or something, who takes care of the financial needs?

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You might not earn enough but the little will go a long way.

4. Men can be so adventurous

We all know that some men love to taste anything in skirt even if it is a cow, so far it is in skirt they are good to go.

Some also fall prey by error, they are not promiscuous like some others but fall victim the day they try to follow the footstep of friends or when they are in distress.

What happens when your man put another woman in the family way when he is still struggling to provide for one.

The attention will be shifted away from you, and it wouldn't be easy by then as you will need to start sharing what only you should have enjoyed.

But you will not feel the effect much when you have your personal source of income as he will not even try coming to you to collect from you for your rival.

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5. Financial independence is self satisfying

The feeling of having the money to spend whenever you need it is out of the world.

Thought many men who don't want their woman to work is running away from the effect of a woman being financially buoyant to fulfil all her needs as some women has shown some men hell just because they have the money, so they want to guide against it.

You feel good when you don't need to call him to ask for money before fulfilling your needs, no matter how small.

Some men are even happy when they know their woman can spend on her own without calling him.

If he does not allow you to work he doesn't love you because the fact that anything can happen to him next minute is enough to make you financially over satisfied,or how will you cope with the kids when no income is coming his way and you are jobless?

There are several onlime jobs a woman can even do while at home to make money, why not seach around and find one suitable for you. 

If he cannot deposit millions of whatever currency you are using into your account that will be at least sufficient in case of any unforseen negative circumstances please don't give in to his option of a full house wife.

Please add your comment and review as this is my opinion, your comment means a lot to me.

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