You Will Never Believe These Bizarre Truths Behind Crush

I should have shared this before The possibility of having a crush while in a relationship i have a lot of write-ups in my draft and my eyes crossed this.

Like i defined crush in my post highlighted above as a feeling of romantic love for someone.

There are so many bizarre truth about the reality of crush which i will share with you today.

Let's get it started...

1. Crusher is not always meant to expressed the crush to the crushee

As humans we have the grace to love so many people at a time, but the type of love differs here.

There are some people we love at first sight possibly because of their look or figure, not even love; permit me to call it fling.

We only want to do the thing with them and delete the experience forgetting that record has been kept.

You are already in a relationship doesn't mean you cannot have a crush, this is why it is most times not meant to be expressed.

It should stay within you, some can share with friends, if you have a strong mind you can share it with your spouse, please i am not there when you start the 5th world war in your bedroom, i am just saying my own.

2. The feeling does not linger for long

Most times we remember that crush maybe when we come in contact with something related to the crushee and we forget about it immediately something else climbs the experience.

3. You don't need to start a relationship with your crush

Because someone is your crush doesn't mean you must start a relationship with them.

They are just people you admire or people you just wish to have a quick sexual experience with like i mentioned above, i wouldn't call it love making because you ain't doing it for love but to have a feel of the something special you see in them.

Not that you cannot date too but i am just talking about the true nature of crush.

At least i know of a married man who has crush on a girl on facebook, they actually met in real life and he is confused if to keep his marriage or take it deep with the crush who has also liked him 😉.

4. Your Crushee don't need to know about you nor feel same way towards you

If you are thinking that for the fact that you take someone to be your crush then that person must reciprocate, you are standing on a long thing because the person might even hate you in reality, and that is if the person is close anyways as your crush may not be someone in your locality.

Someone in Switzerland can be your crush as a Nigerian. I know so many people here in Nigeria that have crush for Beyoncé, Rihanna, Omotola Jolade and even Gerrard Pique's wife (Shakira).

What about those who have crush for Lionel Messi, our own 2face Idibia, Ronaldo.

So it is not a matter of my crush having a crush on me because he/she is my crush.

5. Many mistake role model for crush and vice versa

You ask some people who is your crush; they say Linda Ikeji, you ask from them next time who their role model is and you hear Linda Ikeji again and you are like are you kidding me!

Don't get me wrong, it is possible you make your crush your role model at the same time but many people get it twisted is what i am saying here.

6. You can't make someone of same sex your crush

Like i have defined Crush in my previous write up and here, you should know what it means when you call someone of same sex your crush,i don't need to loud it.

Here in Nigeria, if you are caught with that your same sex crush doing the thing it is 14 years in prison o, so i guess you know what ayam talking about now?

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