Stop being fake!!!
Many reasons have been developed by different people who are living fake/false life. Some will say human being cannot leave without lie, that the only constant thing among human is lies. Another will say even if you are truthful people will still not believe you, so why not lie since that is the only language people understands.
Some will also say "appearance is reality" so its better to appear false (to you but good to outsiders) so that people will have the good impression about you even when you know you are being false.
Do you now know that many people have involved themselves in fake/false life and are now reaping the reward in their grave?
Do you also know that some have involved themselves into fake/false life which has denied them of opportunities?
Living a fake/false life is truly the in-thing in this part of the world, but the question is that is it worth it?
Though, some will say yes, but have you ever pounderd on the disadvantages? Obviously, the disadvantages are much than the enjoyment in it. To anyone living false/fake life, its very sweet when the disadvantages or the result has not roar its ugly head, but once it does standing for what you have claimed to be when you are not will become very hard to do, blaming those that didn't enjoy the fake/false life with you when the experience was pleasant will now turn to the order of the day. You are claiming to be something when you are not. You claim to have something you do not own. You dress to kill/show off when you are crying deep inside of you since your resources is not up to what you put on thereby denying yourself of other needed items by the body.
We believe that material things is essential more than any other thing in the world so therefore, we must get it by all cost. If it is compulsory as we think it is, why then shouldn't we go for what we can afford or what we need at a time rather than competing with others who their source of income are so vague or those who their income can buy anything in the world even when those things are not needed?
Competing is right but why must we compete with someone higher than us? The only thing we can do is to aim high and work towards it which takes a gradual process to yield result and at times the result might come faster than we can imagine.
The most painful thing is that those who leave fake/false life are the lazy ones. I term them lazy because they are the type that will sleep and snore and expect manner to fall from heaven.
Many fake/false life leavers have lost so many opportunities that should have come their ways through the ugly life they are leaving. They have forgotten that many people are willing to help but they can only help when they know you need their help, since its not reasonable to give food to someone that is filled or not hungry when there is another person out there who is almost dead due to hunger. Opportunities only come to those who truly deserves it.
Living a fake/false life will do anybody more arm than good. Why not just be open to people and be transparent in your dealings with people so that when the truth is revealed you will not be ashamed because there will be one day when the truth of all situations will become apparent, so, what will be your reaction when such happens?
Tell the truth of/in all situations even when you are asked while asleep and let your mind be at rest rather than having unsettled mind and thinking of how to use lies to cover another lie in case the previous lie you told is about to be unraveled since one day the truth behind that lie will be leaked which may cause you havoc.
Living a fake/false life will always tell people you are okay when your roof is even on fire. Living a fake/false life will only tarnish a bright future because the reward awaits anyone who leaves such life in the future. A fake/false life will also send away good people from you.
Leave your life in the right direction so that all will work well with you, do not play away your future when you should be planning on how to make your future right and working towards making those around you proud of you.
Do not leave above your income and do not lavish your income unnecessarily so that you will not cry out loud when others are bursting out in laughter because of their resources management skill.
A word, they say, is enough for the wise!
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