Ways to cherish those who loves you unconditionally

Do you think it is easy for you to be loved?

When we talk about love then so many things have been eliminated for your sake just because of love.

Love finds no blame in anything. To love, all imperfection turns to perfection even when the imperfection is so obvious.

If you are lucky to be truly loved then you must respect those that loves you and cherish every moment of their show of affections to you and do all you can to keep them.

I have seen several relationships taken for granted, not by just the man but by women also.

Love is meant to be reciprocated so as to make it last.

There are several ways to cherish the one that loves you unconditionally. These includes;

1. Giving them the opportunity to have a say in your decisions.

When you are in a relationship it is necessary you give your partner the opportunity to make the decisions with you. For you to have accepted to love someone then you have concluded that he/she will also help to mold your decision making. You have agreed that only your decision may not be enough to lead you to the level you wish to attain.

Giving your partner opportunity to interfere in your decision gives him/her the sense of belonging and safety.

2. Giving them surprise pack as often as you can

Despite your flaws someone still finds you attractive, that is enough for you to spoil that person with unexpected gifts as often as you can. This is a way of appreciating that person for the love.

You don't need to wait for a specific time, period or occasion before you flatter the person that loves you with surprise packs or gift.

Almost everyone loves surprises, and no man/woman wouldn't love their spouse to surprise them with gifts and any other thing. In fact, you will be loved more by your spouse if you consistently surprise him/her with gifts.

3. Not comparing them with another

Many homes has been broken because of comparisons. Relationship must be free of comparisons. You shouldn't expect so much from your woman or man which might make you to compare them with someone else.

You knew what he/she can do before the relationship started, don't say because a friend or a friend's husband/wife can do this then he/she shouldn't do less. It makes him or her feel uncomfortable and reduces their self esteem which will not help you yourself.

4. Being proud of them no matter their condition

This is very vital. It is a must you are proud of your spouse anywhere, anytime and any day.

Women especially always want their man to be proud to say it anywhere that "she is my woman". 

Men appreciate it when their woman is buoyant enough to say "this is my man" and use some other romantic adjectives to qualify them among their friends or family.

This makes any man/woman to be in total control which everyone not minding the gender cherish a lot.

Your man or woman will love you more if you will be proud of them anywhere even with their numerous flaws which at time might lead to public embarrassment.

This makes any woman or man feel relaxed and secured since he/she could find someone that could understand him/her when the world couldn't bare his/her flaw(s).

5. Loving everything around them

When you love someone and the person loves you back you have to love everything that has to do with that person unconditionally.

There is this feelings you have within yourself when the one you love extend his/her love to everything around you; your family, friends, relatives etc.

That way, he/she will know how much you cherish him/her, or don't you know you will feel bordered and disturbed when the one you love and your family are not in good terms?

Even when the one you love isn't in good terms with your dog or any small object around you there is this feeling you get which you wouldn't like just because the person you claim to love did not like what you like.

6. Protecting them

No one will not be happy at the person he/she claims to love if he/she will do anything to protect his/her partner from harm, insult, assault, danger or what have you, especially women!

Your partner will always be happy, feel secured when you can show to him/her that him/her means everything to you and that you can do anything to make sure he/she is safe with you.

All i have listed are those things you must do for the person you love and that loves you because without them you are incomplete.

All this i have listed are the things i will do to my own lover to show her i cherish her love for me despite the fact that i love to stay online to keep my readers updated with what i know how to do.

I will also do all this to my constant readers because without them i am incomplete, since without the love they have for me whatever i post on my blog they will not read and i will not be motivated to do it daily like i am doing.

I love you guys and will do all in my best to keep you. 

PLEASE CHERISH THOSE THAT LOVES YOU WITH ALL YOU'VE GOT, YOU MIGHT NOT GET SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE YOU CLOSE TO THE WAY THEY DO ONCE YOU LOSE THEM.

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