Some common mistakes guys make to get a lady

Ladies most of the times have taught guys one lesson or the other which has generated to negative conclusions.

Most guys of this century believes that you can win any woman once you have the resources(money).

The question is that if you have dated a girl and her approach towards you is always a Yes Yes when money comes to play does that implies that all of the girls are just lovers of  material things?

Agreed, money is essential when we talk about relationship, but at the same time money is not everything. Love has its own place and it is the first that must be considered before money.

Most times, first impression you create matters.

Most times your first impression shows any lady the kind of relationship you want from her. A responsible lady who knows what she wants in a man will definitely not accept you if the kind of impression you create is the one that shows to her that you have the cash to spend around. 

With such attitude such woman will know that you will place money above her after she agrees which will be very disastrous to her future.

Some guys don't even waste their time doing the needful when approaching a lady, they believe once they show the colour of money any lady will follow, this has earned many guys slap(s).

Accepted, there are girls that all they want is your cash, but don't make that mistake of generalizing that assertion.

As we have those that all they want is your cash, we also have those that they need all other qualities a man must possess to be a good husband from you.

Respect is what a woman wants and deserves from any man, if you place money or any material things above that respect, you will never get the Yes from any responsible lady.

What about being caring? Do you think money can solve that all the time? Being caring is one thing money cannot always cater for. Ladies needs someone that will show them he will be available not only materially but physically and emotionally as well.

You must show her you care so that she will feel secured whenever she is with you.

If you are from a rich home don't be intoxicated by the riches, do you think this ladies don't know your level when we talk about the financial aspect? They want you to tell them what else you can offer apart from the wealth.

If you are from a well-to-do family or even a poor home, don't try to impress the lady financial so that you will not set the standard you cannot manage consistently because consistency is a huge factor that develops a good relationship. 

You might not be buoyant financially at the beginning but the lady is also interested in your dreams.

Future determines a poor man and not the present. You will be shocked that if you work towards a realistic dream and you become rich a lady who denied you when you were not too financially stable will want to die just to have you. So, be yourself and don't be pushed by peer pressure.

Don't proclaim to a lady what you are not. If you start a relationship with lies, when the truth will come out it might not be able to repair the danger caused.

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