What It Means To Fight For A Marriage

To fight for a marriage is the responsibility of the two involved and not of war or competition but partnership.

The two have to make up their mind to allow themselves to make mistakes and get corrected without one feeling superior to the other and without playing mind game or blame game.

Each must be ready to forgive and let go of offense even before they are committed.

The moment the two people involved cannot act maturely and subject themselves to counseling, then the marriage is more or less a failed project.

The two must be willing to share their concerns and allow counselling to take place. The moment one is not willing to subjetc him/herself for counseling, then, the marrige is dead on arrival.

You cannot say you want to fight for the marriage and you are not willing to forgive your partner when love itself is about forgiveness.

You cannot claim that you want to fight for your marriage and then you are bringing issues that happened before marriage into the present.

It is essential your spouse have someone they fear that can put them on the right part when you report. Reporting is also an act of fighting for your marriage as you are trying to ensure your marriage is in place.

You can fight for a marriage when your partner is still in the marriage and is willing to join force with you, not with a spouse that is out of the marriage in the heart waiting for you to explode.

Fighting for marriage involves huge sacrifice which can only be achieved when you work hand-in-hand with your spouse as one alone cannot make it happen.

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