What To Do After She Confessed She Did it With A Guy Under The Influence of Alcohol

This is a response to a question i was asked.

The girl told the guy the next day she had s3x with a guy after she was drunk.

Personally, I think we are humans and are bound to make mistakes, though some mistakes can be unforgivable but we just need to find the forgiving spirit because it might be our turn tomorrow.

"She really tried to have told you, other ladies out there will never mention it and you will think they are holy.

It means she really loves you and her conscience couldn't allow her to keep it as it might come up in the future which may be unforgivable by then.

Please pretend it didn't happen and move on, make her realise alcoholic drinks are not meant for her through series of cool communication and the need for her to desist from what can make such act come to reality again must be elaborated".

That was my response and it goes beyond this. When you are addicted to alcohol, things of this type are bound to happen.

If you did not destroy yourself you will destroy others because their secret can never be secured with you.

You will expose them and destroy yourself unknowingly, you only get to know when you are relieved, but what about the harm that has already been done?

Like i said earlier, he needs to forgive the girl, it wouldn't be easy, and the memory will keep lingering, but he must learn to clear it off with activities when the memory comes to mind, this is the only way he can survive with her in the relationship.

This is not just for the guy but for others in relationship, it wouldn't be smooth as we think it will be but with forgiving spirit and perseverance you will overcome the thorns.

Please feel free to add your advise or comment and review, it is important to not just me, you are free to share your experience too.

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