Do you have a best friend of opposite sex?

My last topic prompted this question and i know this will have been a huge fight in many shaky relationships.

Having an opposite sex as a best friend isn't an issue worth fighting over. This doesn't mean that they must have romantic affection towards each other if they know how to draw the lines.

The major reason some of such relationship ends in romantic affair is because the two lacks emotional control.

Many times, spouse of those two get bothered of the closeness between their man/woman and their opposite sex close friend due to what they probably have heard of the cause of some broken relationships which they will not want to experience.

When you cannot control your emotion you cannot and should not choose an opposite sex as a best friend.

At times, even those that are very strong emotionally fall victim let alone someone who is very weak.

If you must choose an opposite sex as a best friend, you must be able to draw the boundaries between that friendship so as not to make your spouse get jealous or be suspicious as a result of the fear of the unknown.

Having an opposite sex as best friend is not an issue, managing it is the issue which requires great caution as some circumstances can make you fall victim.

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