6 ways to find love that last

Finding a lasting love is something that is as expensive as gold this days. This is one reason some people are afraid to go into relationship.

You can actually find love that will last, but for that to come to reality i will suggest the followings:

1. Be positive

One reality about life is that everything is not certain, not even our life as we might just sleep and not wake up to see the break of another day.

For this, you must just think positive as at times what we think happens in reality.

Forget the fact that many since they have grown to starting a relationship they have not gotten a befitting partner, your case might be different and this is why you must be positive as your mindset can even keep giving you a set back if not properly monitored.

2. Be trustful:

It is common among humans, we don't trust easily, however, if you are the type looking for someone to love you, you need to be ready to trust the partner as that is the foundation of any relationship whatsoever.

Remember you will have to submit your ego, and all of you to him/her, without trust this cannot be possible.

You don't need to border your mind about if the partner will betray your trust or not, the fact is that you must do your part.

3. Be perfect:

This is what i mean here, for you to start a relationship you need to make yourself perfect to yourself. You need to always ask if your behaviour is what you can accept from others.

The truth is that what you cannot tolerate you shouldn't try it with your partner, this is why you must be perfect for yourself, be sure that whatever action you take can be generalized.

If you always have it at the back of your mind that you want this relationship to work and that even if it doesn't work you will not be the subject but the victim, the testimony at the end of the day will be so great as you are ready to face any temptation that comes the way of your relationship.

4. Be modifiable:

Remember you want to fall in love with someone completely different from you in all ramifications. There are things you cannot accept, there are things you love and there are also things you cannot touch let alone eat.

You must try to make yourself available for modification because you will need to blend with some of the choice of your partner.

5. Learn to be tolerant:

The truth is this, your partner might possess some attributes you will find irritating, you don't need to show it but accept it as the price you need to pay for the love even if you will correct the act.

Even if you must correct immediately, you must do that with all diligence so as not to create wrong impression in your partner.

6. Learn to forgive:

I know this is not easy to deal with as it depends on the gravity off the offence. But, in a relationship you must be ready to forgive because no one is perfect as the flesh can be so deceitful and always hungry to commit one atrocity or the other.

Always ready to give another chance because it might be the other way round tomorrow, don't let your action today be used against you but for you in the future.

This is my opinion on finding a love that last, i hope it helps.

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