Valentine’s day is not for women alone

Now it is very clear that woman cannot feel special without man, little wonder they are created from man's ribs.

Not just the Valentine’s day, during xmas and new year celebration many ladies believes it is the day their man must give them unforgettable treat not considering his pocket nor how good he has been from the first day of the relationship.

Some men are also of the opinion that it is a most they prove they are in control of the relationship, therefore, they need to show it.

Little wonder some kids end their relationship during this period with flimsy excuse when they cannot perform their presumed control of the day financially.

Personally, i think you are degrading yourself when you expect that a man must be the one to give you the unforgettable treat these special days as life is about give and take, and as a man, you are still a kid to have thought that it is only your duty to make the special day worth while.

Some woman will not even care about what you have or how you will get the money to give her the best treat, all she knows is that she must be treated specially that day.

They believe that for a day to be special, then, it must be made special indeed for them by their man.

Not that it is not good, at least, the man will get the opportunity of being the head of the relationship, however, men too deserves to be treated like a king during this periods.

Not that the man should not do his duties, however, she should also make you feel special in her little way after all they say what a man can do they(women) can do better.

It shouldn't be a day the man will be filled with the thought of "why am i a man and not woman?"

It shouldn't be a day the man will want to do all he can to dodge from his "responsibilities", not because he does not love you, but the resources to show how much you are cherished is scarce even after always doing the right thing when the resources are available.

If a man can do all in his capabilities to make a woman feel special once in a while or on these special occasions, a woman must also do at least little in reciprocal.

Showing appreciation for the love if not for anything whatsoever is something that can make the man too to feel special.

A good woman who knows the value of a good man will not wait for special days to show appreciation to the man for his love and care.

These special days should be utilised by any good wife/lady to show appreciation no matter how little and to make the man proud of being a good man/husband as it is never easy to be one.

The truth is that, this good men don't wait till special days like the xmas, new year nor Valentine’s day to show you how important and special you are in their life.

They treat you like a queen everyday, even those special days no matter how they make it look special you still see it as their usual show of love, so why not use this special days for appreciation instead of still hoping they spend more on you.

Even if he has prepared the world for you on these special days, it is important you also have your special plans for him too, he deserves to feel special too.

If you have a special man you will understand better that it is women that should utilize the special days more than the men as everyday is special for a good man to his wife.

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