Relationship: Argument and Fight

Like i always say, all relationships go through temptations and climb through thorns, though, each relationship with its own struggle.

Your partner is loving, caring, sweet, romantic and what have you cannot stop argument from surfacing in your relationship.

I remember some weddings i attended when the religious leader will warn rigorously that argument will occur but one of the two must succumb for the other, not because that person is weak but to allow peace.

In any responsible home argument must not culminate to fight no matter the circumstances. From the first day the relationship started was when you have signed the tolerance form.

Love doesn’t fight, in fact, fight is an enemy when we mention love, tolerance will allow argument but resist fight.

Argument makes you stronger as you learn from each other.

You know the kind of partner you have, you know what can get him/her mad and you know the extent you can get to which will provoke the anger in them, so, you must not be the one that will push them to the wall.

I read a story on Facebook some days back about a man who beat his woman mercilessly. I agree women can push someone to the tip but a responsible man should learn to control his anger.

Fight will cause many damage which at times cannot be repaired.

Love does not cause pains, sadness, regret, but joy, peace and other good things.

No one will say you shouldn't engage in argument, that you should tell your partner "please, i don't like that" but you must not let it linger for a long period.

Learn to give yourself a breather when it seems the other is going irate, it is normal as we are humans. Let him or her be alone for some minutes for his/her nerves to calm, if not, unwanted situation will arise which the luckiest will live to tell the story.

Do not allow relationship to see the end of you and your partner, instead, fight hard and try as much as possible to tolerate your partner no matter the provocation.

Click here to see the facebook post about the man who beat his wife

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