5 Things You Should Not Do If You Want Your Relationship To Succeed

We tend not to let go till the end even with so many temptations on the way when we get into serious relationship.

This is how we were taught about relationship and also what we have seen among many happy couples. Remember, we look beautiful in a happy relationship. 

To prevent unhappiness here are some of the things we shouldn't do when we want our relationship to last.

1. DON'T COMPARE

We all know we started from somewhere, your partner might not be your first, therefore, don't compare the one you have now with the one you once had or compare other relationships outside yours with your own.

You don't know what those you are comparing yours with are going through. 

You are just seeing the physical part of other people's relationship, the one internal may not be bearable for you.

Also, comparing relationships with your own will lower the self esteem of your partner and will see nothing good in your relationship.

2. DO NOT KEEP MALICE

You too should be best of friends. 

Argument will arise definitely, you and your partner must be able to contain it in order for it not to get out of hand.

3. TRY NOT TO THINK OF  YOURSELF ALONE

Always remember you are not the only one in the relationship, you alone cannot make up a relationship.

It is even better to think of your partner first. Thinking of yourself alone will not make the relationship grow.

In fact, at a point it will just destroy all you built as it will make your partner to grow some other intentions that may destroy the relationship.

4. NEVER EXPOSE YOUR ROMANTIC MOMENTS

Your romantic life should be private. No matter how close you may be to your friend, no matter the secret you share, try not to disclose your romantic experience with your partner to your friend because what you are enjoying/dislike might be opposite to your friend of which they might want to be part of that experience.

Remember human beings can go extra miles to achieve whatever they desire. 

Not all foods should be given to your friends.

5. NEVER KEEP LOOSE FRIENDS

The friends you keep also determines how long your relationship will go.

And the way you respond to pressure also determines the longevity of your relationship even when you have the bad ones as your friends.

The best thing is to be careful of the advice you take from friends and the kind of attitude you emulate from your friends as it can shape or destroy your relationship.

This is my opinion, please add comment and review, your contribution is important to me. 

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