Your Marriage Failed Doesn't Mean Others will Have Failed Marriage Too

Many marriages have collapsed due to one reason or the other. But in stead of the two people involved to move on with their lives, they start planting hatred of the opposite gender into their seed.

Some single mothers do warn their female child(ren) to keep away from men so as not to face the same situations as their's.

They are ready to go any length to see that they spoil the reputation of men just for their daughter not to go through what they have gone through that led to separation from their husband.

Some single fathers are also alike. Because of what the wife did that led to break-up they try all in their capability to reduce woman to object of ridicule.

In most cases, infidelity makes men to stay separated from their wife, and because of this they will paint all woman as same to their male child(ren) thereby seeing other woman as nothing to be taken too serious.

Not all men are the same, so also, not all women are the same.

If you say because of what a man or woman has done to you then nothing should work between those two genders then you are deceiving yourself greatly.

So many homes are sweater than honey, yet, they consist of the different genders each of you are castigating, what will you do about that?

Twins grew together in their mother's belly and came to the world almost together, yet, they behave differently in most cases.

We all are not the same, we must be ready to give each persons room to prove themselves. Hasty generalization will lead to nothing but destruction. 

You only dealt with just an individual out of millions and you concluded that everyone of same gender behaviour. 

You Shouldn't expect everyone to make same mistake as you. Also, we are humans, fall is very possible, rising from the fall is what makes a man. 

Because we fail doesn't mean we cannot work to turn the situation around. 

Before making your conclusion you didn't even think about what you did wrong yourself that made your partner do what they did. 

Furthermore, what will you say about your friends and other people around who are married and are happy with the marriage? 

Yours fail didn't mean that of others will also fail, never compare your situation with others as we have different issues we contend with. 

Read Also: 8 Avoidable Causes Of Marriage Failure 

Before you advice on marital issues remember to include those who are enjoying theirs and learn to be positive. 

I am not saying there are no wrong partners, of course there are many, but the issue is that you yourself might be the wrong person for your partner. 

It is better we walk on ourselves at times before castigating a partner. 

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