Some women makes it hard for men to trust

He who finds a wife finds a good thing. Good wife is a sign of favour from God they say.

I have said it times without number that one needs to trust somebody no matter what the situation might be.

This especially goes to married couples out there. You have to trust your spouse no matter the condition.

But how will you convince a man who spent almost 7years of his life with a lady, and along the line he caught his woman cheating?

He trusted her and can bet his life anywhere that his woman can never cheat on him no matter the circumstances.

What sermon will you preach to a man who has invested on his woman (probably his wife-to-be) and at the long run he found out the woman his cheating?

What kind of song will you sing for a man who tried all his best to satisfy his woman even in bed and later found out that another man shares with him the deepest part of his woman?

Can you just try to imagine your spouse being serviced by someone other than you? Imagine the looks on her face, the screams, moan in satisfaction etc.

Some men are very loyal and cannot do anything to hurt a woman, but some woman turned them to who and what they have become.

Several people used to say that even if those close to you are familiar with your spouse it doesn't stop him/her from displaying the atrocities programmed in him/her.

Well, the above is true. And no matter how good they are at keeping the secret from getting out, the secret will roar its ugly head one day.

Dirty secrets are like air, they will definitely blow, no one can stop it from showcasing its innate talent.

Not all the woman are bad and neither are all men bad as you think they are, but it takes the favour of God to get a good husband/wife.

Some women are very lucky, even after so many atrocities they still don't get caught while some will be caught immediately after just one trial of atrocity.

At times, i wonder why some women who were virgin before they got married couldn't give birth after so many years of marriage, while some women that were promiscuous and have aborted series of pregnancies before marriage starts giving birth to children few months after marriage ceremony.

I think God should have started dealing with some women even before their marriage because of the kind of dirty deeds they have done.

But this is to show that God is for sinners so that they can repent (Luke 19:10).

Thank goodness God is not man!

Well, i guess one way or the other we are not all clean, and to God sin is sin without quantification.

Men that are sleeping with another woman rather than their woman in the name of pleasure, just think about how you will feel when someone else is doing what you are doing to someone else's woman to your wife.

I have not said anything which will make anyone not to trust his/her spouse. Trust is the foundation of any relationship which must not shake for a second.

To those the thought i have shared has affected please learn to trust someone again, a bad boyfriend/girlfriend to you can be the best husband/wife to another.

And it is important that you don't turn bad because of what a woman has done to you, let God and let go while you hope for your own dream woman to surface.

You can't say, a bad girlfriend to someone might be the best woman on earth for you.

But the best is to try as much as possible not to let those who trust you down, it will cost you dearly if you do especially when you try to regain the trust.

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