Don't blame my choice, respect my decision | Bamisepeter's Blog Don't blame my choice, respect my decision - Bamisepeter's Blog Don't blame my choice, respect my decision | Bamisepeter's Blog

Don't blame my choice, respect my decision



I think human beings should start learning to respect others' choice.

The obvious is that we cannot view things the same way. The rate at which we love or hate something differs.

God created everything in the universe. Man, animals, plants etc.

Among human beings two cannot be the same. We have cases of identical twins and some situations whereby they will say human look alike.

Of all this cases, there will definitely be something that will make one to be different from the other.

Even some parts of human body God created are not equal. Animals too that are twins or even quadruplets don't look completely alike.


This examples are not to prove in any way that God is not perfect, but to tell you that humans difference in perception starts right from just a single being.

Because when two same part of human body cannot agree to be equal then two humans cannot be equal.

Some people's choice of discipline in the higher institution might be the discipline some other persons hate with passion, you shouldn't condemn those that love it because of your own hatred for it.

Some other set of people are condemned because of their choice of profession by some people who has with time grown dissatisfaction with that profession or maybe due to their negative experience of that same profession.

I am a christian, because of that it is very wrong for me to say that everyone in the universe should be Christian too.

There must be religious tolerance among us. Problem of some developed and developing countries centers around religious intolerance and this is making them to kill each other every blessed day.

There shouldn't be crime when you love fried rice and i hate it. I shouldn't condemn you for taking delight in it and neither should you castigate my hatred for it.

Material things we love differs, you shouldn't force your choice on me and neither should i force mine on you and either of us shouldn't repel each other out of what our heart crave for so far it wouldn't lead to destruction.

When we talk about love, it is important we understand that love is blind to some people and to some other people the eyes of love is as sharp as that of an eagle.


You say, "see the kinda girl/boy my friend is going out with, not even up to standard...".. 

You also say, "what! She is damn ugly for ma friend...".

See! So far the concerned is not bordered i don't think you need to make that person your point of hatred.

One thing i know is that if you don't know that person your friend has chosen to be a bad person(someone into illegal acts) in the society then you have no other choice than to adhere by his/choice.

He might not be rich today but no one knows what tomorrow may hold.
You are condemning someone else's choice when your own choice is also being condemned by someone else with or without your knowledge.

This is to show that no one is perfect and that is how it will be forever.
You should be happy that your friend is pleased and happy with his/her choice and i think once happiness is derived from what you love then you are more than good to go.

No one is saying you shouldn't advice a friend or make him/flee from destruction. But, it is necessary we know that the fact that our choices are different then we must respect each other's decisions so as to avoid conflict especially when it comes to personal likes or hatred, since the opposite of your choice might be mine.

Just trying to make common sense.

YOU CAN ADD, MAKE COMMENT, LIKE AND SHARE HERE

CLICK LIKE ON THE FACEBOOK PAGE OF THIS BLOG TO GET IMMEDIATE POST UPDATE HERE

CLICK FOLLOW ON THE INSTAGRAM HANDLE OF THIS BLOG TO GET IMMEDIATE EVENT PICTURES UPDATE HERE

Click the picture for Picture credit

No comments:

Comment posted by any of this blog reader does not reflect the opinion or view of bamisepeters

Powered by Blogger.