Positive effect of argument in your relationship
In a relationship it is necessary that argument surfaces but it must not linger to the extent which it will not be contained.
This is the reason the two involved in a relationship shouldn't be so stiff-necked that one will not want to listen to the other.
Argument is caused by disagreement on a particular issue which should be defeated through a unique understanding and agreement by the two involved.
Through arguments so many things can be discovered and this is why argument must be constructive and free of bias.
The purpose of argument should be to learn. This can only be achieved if the two parties are ready to listen to each other.
The man shouldn't try to prove to the woman that because he is a man the woman must succumb to his authority at all cost.
The woman also shouldn't have the mindset of defeating the man so as to show that she is more intelligent than the man.
The argument should be on a same play level ground so that it will end on a good note instead of battery or even separation. Relationship is meant for two people who are willing to learn from each other.
Constructive argument makes you put your brain to test and also strengthen your relationship and marriage.
Do you know that when you finish an argument on a good note it strengthens the understanding between you and your man?
The moment you settle an argument like two responsible and mature minds that you are it fixes some errors many marriages could not contain that led to break up while many are still being burnt of the heat.
There is no little or flamboyant argument as any of it can kill a marriage when not properly handled.
Before you start a relationship, it is a must you know that one of the attributes of a strong relationship is argument management. That is, how good you are able to handle arguments among yourselves.
Be ready to submit your free will to each other for a long lasting relationship.
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