Are you this kind of mother-in-law to your daughter-in-law?

Women are the enemies of themselves. Women don't trust themselves a bit. Though they claim to be protecting their family but they are over protective most times. This is common among African Women.

Many mother-in-laws that are meant to be guidance and mothers
to their daughter-in-law have turned to be their child's home destroyers.

Many women don't want another woman to come from no where to take away the love their child has for them forgetting that mother's love is more natural than any other love towards someone else. 

So many homes have been destroyed as a result of mother-in-law's interference.

Mothers must learn to allow the child to be independent once he is married and accept the choice of the child.

Once a wife notices that her mother-in-law is interfering into her family matters and she isn't giving them breathing space then the prayers the wife will be saying to God every morning and night will be to ask for the death of the mother-in-law.

To some mother-in-laws their daughter-in-law are always wrong even when she is right. No matter how hard she tries to make her get satisfied she will get the negative as result.

All mother-in-laws especially those that are still under their husband's roof should remember that they were once in the daughter-in-law's shoes, and they wouldn't have been as happy as they are if they were treated that same way they are treating the daughter-in-law when they were also young.

No matter how hard you have suffered on the child he must settle down with a woman one day. If you have built your child in the right way things wouldn't go the other way round.

The only thing parents need to continuously do is to support the child and his family in prayers rather than inflicting everlasting pains on the daughter-in-law which might in turn have adverse effects on them.

Your child at times may be the cause of an unreplied request you made to him meanwhile you are misjudging your daughter-in-law.

There are also some father-in-laws like that, terrorizing your daughter-in-law will not help your child in anyway, rather, it will make your son unhappy.

No man will pray that his parents will not at least like his wife, in fact, that is the first prayer of every man.

A growing family needs all supports of the parents to survive.

This is also a lesson for the would-be mother-in-laws and father-in-laws. Know that you will not be the first and neither will you be the last, so terrorizing your daughter/son-in-law shouldn't be your priority.

All parents should know that no woman can take parent's love away from the child whom she is married to and neither can a man take the love of the parents from the woman he is married to.

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