Lust in Love

This write-up is an answer to a question directed to me on my mail.

Nowadays, young men and women are exposed to different kinds of uncensored films, songs etc and they are captivated by scenes they see. This scenes affects their love life as a whole thereby confusing lust to be love.

The young ones of today are so particular about beauty and figures especially the young male. They take love to be sex whereas there are so many things involved. One thing they fail to realize  is that if love is sex then all married men should have close to 100 wives, because once they have sex with a woman once its enough to know what the woman entails and the next thing is to start making research on another "sexable" woman.

Love goes beyond sex. When a relationship is fresh and all the man could lay emphasis on is sex then something is wrong somewhere, the woman need to flee from such man "if"  what the woman wants in a man is a lasting relationship. 

It will take a long time for sex to come into a natural relationship, so many things must have been gained such as trust, affection, shelter(feeling safe whenever you are with each other) etc.

Some young men of nowadays are no more patient when it comes to relationship, they are not ready to take things one at a time but instead have all at once. 

If you are a lady with a determined mind of getting a man that will stay with you to the end, you have to be ready to stamp your ground and take your time before concluding.

The major concerns of the men of this century is "sex", they don't see any other good thing in a woman rather than their sex toy, the only one that will fall victim is she who is not determined or who does not know what she wants. 

There are many good husbands out there waiting for good wife, but if care is not taken wrong hands are also opened to receive impatient and undetermined woman. 

You have a bright future ahead of you do not allow a man to destroy it, in a relationship that is sex based it is the woman that will bear the brunt not the man. Result of sex is very conspicuous in women whereas even the man behind the result of sex could still claim he has never had sex before in his entire life.

Its high time women woke up from their slumber and be patient not to fall pray to the beast in men. 

A man that looks after sex in a relationship is capable of terminating bright destiny, a young relationship should not be wealth based, wealth will come at its own time, patience can cook a stone, wealth can vanish at any point in time, don't love "because" but love naturally, there will be problem when you love "because" since change is constant in humanity the clause attached to the love might diminish at any point in time. 

If you love because of something you will have to take anything that comes thereafter. Sex is the symbol of love for today's generation, they fall in lust more than they fall in love... Beware and wise up and stay strong.