5 Important Things To Do When Your Man Isn't Attracted To You Anymore
The moment he isn't finding you attractive anymore there is a lot you need to do to make him regain that attraction or else crash of the union is iminent.
Here are some of the ways to regain the attraction:
1. Speak his language:
As lovers you should know what your partner loves most from you. At times, it is not the love making that brings the spark.
Even for many, before the love making you need to know and touch the appropriate buttons in order to set the mood or else it will not be as enjoyable as you have imagined.
For some men, it might be the word you say to him. It might be the time you share together that gives another man that sense of attraction, all you just need do is to discover and then key into it.
2. Check the way you dress:
Some men start losing the interest in you when you start looking like someone more than her real age all in the name of being a married woman.
You really need to look attractive before your man can find you attractive.
I am not saying you should go nude for him to see the reason to turn you to sex object. There are many ways you can dress to look decently-attractive.
Not until you apply all the make-ups of this world and you look like masquerade, all should be moderate.
3. Make him stop watching porn movies:
One of the effects of erotic movies is lost of attraction. Some men are so addicted to it to the extent of masturbating while watching, of course he has satisfy his sexual urge which will not make him to even consider the fact that you are expecting him.
Love making is one big source of connection between couple, without it you are calling for loss of interest in each other gradually.
4. Sit him down and discuss:
Just like i usually say that communication is vital at streghtening any union. You cannot know the other person's mind without him/her telling you about it.
The cause of the loss of interest might be something completely different from those i have mentioned above, but with heart-to-heart discussion you can phantom it out to know the solution.
5. Seek counseling:
If you have tried all i have outlined and non seems to work perfectly for the situation, you will need to seek professional assistance if you really want your man.
The counseling should not be just for you but him also as he needs to be reminded about the things he saw in you before tying the knot with you.
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A good marriage counselor will get the reality of whatever the issue might be and will be able to know how to manage the two of you if the two of you are still interested though, else, end of discussion.
This is my opinion, kindly add your contribution, it is inportant to me.
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