3 Reasons you need to keep your relationship on a low key in the beginning

At the beginning of any relationship it is very essential to keep it secret as much as you can.

The following are reasons it is essential to keep it secret:

1. Because it is the beginning:

At this point you have not really known where it will lead to, you are just beginning to know each other and trying to see the prospect of marriage out of the relationship.

2. You will be hanged:

The moment you start making people know about your relationship you have made them to start looking up to you, your freedom will be limited.

And for the fact that you know that they are already watching you it will be hard to make the decision to break-up if you feel it is not working out or it will not work out well in the future as you will start considering people's thought about you as regards your relationship.

At times when you move with an opposite sex they start grumbling even if that opposite gender is your sibling, you start seeing secret agents watching over you for your new lover which makes you totally stalked.

3. Some will want it destroyed

This for those who have been in one relationship or another prior to the new one.

You think your ex is through with you? Sorry!

The only way out is to have ended the relationship maturely and with mutual understanding, if it is the case of infidelity or something else, that ex will want the separation between you and the new found lover so as to prove his/her point that led to the separation between you and him/her.

Some will go extra mile to cause the separation themselves through any means including attacking you on your social platforms where the new found lover can quickly come across it.

In case your ex is the extreme jealous type, you are in deep shit if you make them know your relationship at the early stage, you know what jealousy can cause at times.

When you leave them in the dark they will remain clueless and will have moved on when you later need to make it open.

So, it is highly recommended that you make your relationship hidden from people till you are sure of the status and stand of the relationship to avoid those spiritual binoculars that is watching your destiny.

This is my opinion, please add comment and review, it is important to me.

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