This is a response to a question on Talk2bella by a reader and listener who said... " there’s this guy I like who’s also as...
This is a response to a question on Talk2bella by a reader and listener who said...
" there’s this guy I like who’s also asking me out but every day we go out all he talks about is sex and the things he will do to my body and this is making me angry...
... " I don’t want a relationship based on sex, I have told him this; it’s not like I won’t have sex with him but we just met like two months ago and that’s all he talks about, I have told him to stop that I do not like it he says that’s the way he is and he loves me and wants to be free to talk about anything with me, what do I do?"
Like i replied that sex is one major element in any relationship, however, choice and timing of sex in a relationship can make you hate/chrish the actual sense of relationship.
Though, there are many relationships whereby within one week they have gone through rivers and valleys with each other, yet, they are still much stronger than those who studied themselves for several months or years before experiencing se x with each other.
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That is to say, duration of the relationship before se x does not determine the intention or future of the relationship.
However, if all he clamours about is sex, it is a sign of warning as he is already telling you what he wants.
Run from this kind of man as even in a decent relationship the sex comes naturally and not by you saying it day after day and not by just one party's consent but the two.
His interest is in the se x, just start packing your emotional loads from him and don't allow him give your heart a hole if you know you are not ready and you know it is not time, let him find his type.
Truth must be told, a man who genuinely loves you can still hold himself for more than two months, and will not keep ringing the se x bell to your hears just within two months like you are a se x machine.
If you are not the type that demand for material things from him which may be the cause of some guys who believes when you show women the colors of money they lie down flat to keep shouting se x as that is the only thing such guys can get in return from you, then, you need to run.
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