This is a response to a post 4 Signs Your Wife Is Sleeping With Other Men on Naij.com
I will not say the write-up isn't good, however, some posts can ruin a family and this is one of them.
The writer made this write-up looks like the couple are not even in good terms.
Before i write i think about the impact on the society especially when it comes to relationship as it is fragile, what you will not expect to break a relationship will even over break it and the parties involved might later blame themselves for the separation.
All the points raised in the post is not enough reasons to prove that a wife is cheating as there might be so many other reasons to them.
She has been finding s ex difficult with you or doesn't want to have s ex with you today is not a good reason to conclude she is having nice time with other men outside, what about her mood? What happens to communication? Even if she is extremely good at it, don't you feel your attitude towards her show of pleasure towards you at times might make her change?
When a woman is less concerned about your annoying acts it is just as simple as her getting used to all of your acts and leaving you to exhibit who you are as we always have our annoying moments. What happens to change? Or have you forgotten it is the only constant thing?
What happens to tolerance? Or have you forgotten so fast that tolerance is one huge characteristics of marriage?
Saying she goes out often and comes back happy is as a result of cheating is only applicable when you have a full housewife, of course she is not expected to just leave the house anytime she likes, what will she be looking for?
What happens to the joy that comes with fulfilment of dreams? What happens to the joy that comes when your business is moving forward?
So you mean a man is also cheating if he is going out without reasons and coming back with happiness written all over him?
If you have evidence of your spouse cheating, then, i don't think there is a need for that post anymore, you have seen all the reasons of the world and it is left to you to decide on your future, but before you decide, please give him/her room for explanation.
All the points in the write-up will possibly be valid if the duo are not in good terms as there will be no reason to give reasons for any action.
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I will only advise we don't allow ego to kill our home. When one is angry the other should try to calm things down so as not to allow the unthinkable happen. Husband and wife should be ready to forgive each other even before any offence.
Don't conclude your spouse is cheating without concrete evidence. Please be careful of some flimsy signs which might make things worse.
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