This write-up is a response to the post I prefer my man beating me than cheating on me by Somtoo . There might be large differen...
There might be large difference between cheating and beating. I know for a lady to have made that statement that she prefer to be beaten than cheated on means such lady does not understand what it means to be battered.
Yes, through cheating you might contact STD from your man which might also be incurable, however only a beast will prefer that option.
You can only choose that option if you are a good boxer.
Non of the two is good, in fact battery is worst as it can easily send you to the other world, instead, why not go for a divorce because most men who beats also cheat.
The truth is that someone who claims to love you will not think of raising his hand to harm you, but he can still love you and cheat on you as some men cheat to cover the errors of the one they claim to love, while some others do it as pressure demands and for pleasure. I am not supporting it but just saying the reality.
Before you can call it cheating it means he is doing it without your knowledge and he is afraid to let you know which is a sign of respect needed for any relationship to be healthy.
Never settle for battery as the result is over harmful. I think it is better for him to cheat.
Like i usually tell those women who seek advice from me, it is not good for any woman to be idle, full house wife should never be an option, not just because of the economic situation, you will only give yourself hypertension when you find out your man is cheating when you don't have something fetching you your own money.
Respect your man, honor him, however you must make sure you can be financially responsible for yourself and at least two children in case of the unknown future as men can unknowingly make that mistake.
If at the end of it all he legalizes the cheating, by then, financial support, emotional attachment will all be shared and no one will query his decision.
When you are financially independent you care less about him cheating because non-engagement can lead a woman to start investigating what shouldn't be investigated just to keep busy.
I am not advocating for cheating, it is a no no for me too but it is much more better than battery as many men involve in it with their senses open in order for you to be safe while they enjoy.
Cheating doesn't mean he doesn't love you, the day you catch him is when you know how much he loves you.
Cheating is better than battery, however, a man should learn to be faithful to just her just like you want her to be faithful to you alone.
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