Relationship and religion might have one or two things together, however, we must not make religion get into our head and deceive us t...
Relationship and religion might have one or two things together, however, we must not make religion get into our head and deceive us that it is from that same home of worship we will get the best partner.
Don't be deceived that our religious leader knows someone very well to the point of prescribing a partner to you.
The only thing you need from any religious leader is the counselling and their prayers.
I think the world has gotten to a stage where no one can even vouch for another because the rate of pretence when we talk about relationship is very high.
Don't be deceived, that the brother is very nice to everyone or the sister is very beautiful, intelligent and respectful will culminate to a good home if you can have him/her as partner.
I am not saying you cannot get your life partner in your place of worship nor that when you get your partner in your place of worship will not guarantee good home.
All i am saying is that you shouldn't let a man of God use his/her influence to force someone on you.
Even those married to some of this religious leaders can tell you what they are going through with the choice of their own partner let alone them forcing one on you.
Living with someone doesn't mean you know that person completely let alone seeing that person once or twice in a week.
Only those in marriage can share the beautiful and ugly experiences to you.
I have seen some homes that started from the same place of worship but it is new war each day.
Religious leaders shouldn't get themselves involved in the beginning of any relationship because the definition of human is beyond the appearance.
If you fall in love with someone in the same place of worship; fine, if not, just look somewhere else instead of allowing a man of God to tell you this brother/sister will be the best for you.
Don't forget that you will face the sweet and bitter experience alone when the religious leader might be tearing chicken in his/her house.
At times, they are right with their prescription, of course, it is 50-50 chances, but don't ever conclude that getting a partner in the same place of worship or a partner prescribed by a religious leader will guarantee a happy home.
Use your head my brothers and sisters, you can make great decisions on your own when you believe in yourself, be prayerful too the prayer you say to your God can also be acceptable to your creator.
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