Facts you must know about relationship before you begin
Many times we take lust for love even when we know the two words are opposite.
If you have never loved or being loved you need to know you are missing.
Despite the fact that relationship is exhausting which makes some people run from it, if you are truly loved you will preach it to others.
Do you care to ask some old couples the secret behind the longevity of their relationship? Even after so many stones and thorns they have stepped through, yet, they are still much strong in the relationship. If it is as cruel some people take it to be, then no one will be in a relationship.
Many enter into relationship with different reasons. Some were forced, others to impress, those that were pushed by peer pressure, some the appearance, many others for the sake of what it is and more.
Due to the above, many relationship crash untimely because the foundation was faulty while those with the good intentions are enjoying the dividend of relationship.
Before you start a successful relationship, you must know and make your conclusions on the following;
Before you start a successful relationship, you must know and make your conclusions on the following;
1. Relationship is for the mentally and emotionally mature minds
relationship is for two matured minds who are ready to submit to each other.
relationship is for two matured minds who are ready to submit to each other.
Relationship is for those who can forget their perfection and pretend they are imperfect so as to be able to tolerate the other person.
The truth is this, background differs and our home is a great determinant when we talk of who we are.
For a great relationship, two people from this two completely different world must be ready to submit their ego; the two must be ready to tolerate each other forgetting age, financial background, race, choice and so on.
For a great relationship, two people from this two completely different world must be ready to submit their ego; the two must be ready to tolerate each other forgetting age, financial background, race, choice and so on.
Relationship is not for babies to venture into because of the commitment involved. You need to think about your partner before you make any decision if you want the best out of the relationship.
2. You might not get what you desire in a partner
Another fact is that if you do not let the love come naturally, the possibility of the relationship being long is under treat.
Another fact is that if you do not let the love come naturally, the possibility of the relationship being long is under treat.
Yes, it is good to set priorities but it is not at all times that what we want is what we get. Education , beauty, good grooming, financial status and so on are different conditions we set. The funny thing is that many desire in their partner what they don't have and this set wrong priority which makes the relationship collapse even from the beginning.
For you to get the best out of your relationship, you must be ready to care less of what other says, they might have a say in your affair but you must be ready to be firm with your decision or else you will fall into the hands of wrong partner.
For this, you must know what you really want and not what the world want. What works for the world may not go for you, if you make the right choice the world will follow your choice.
3. Relationship is also as important as your life
For those that want the best from their relationship, you must be ready to take relationship as important as your life if you want it to be successful, you can't just take it with levity, you must be determined.
Determination is the only weapon to fight all obstacles that may rise against ones relationship.
For those that want the best from their relationship, you must be ready to take relationship as important as your life if you want it to be successful, you can't just take it with levity, you must be determined.
Determination is the only weapon to fight all obstacles that may rise against ones relationship.
Take it or leave it, relationship is as important as our life considering continuity.
Once a relationship is sealed, normally, it should be a university where only death can cause your graduation, but this days the abnormal takes priority.
To some, they believe relationship need not be forever, you might get fed up at anytime and you need to move on with another person you desire, though, this is common in western world and as common as it is many still frowns against it. In Africa, it is generally not welcomed which makes Africans unique.
Once a relationship is sealed, normally, it should be a university where only death can cause your graduation, but this days the abnormal takes priority.
To some, they believe relationship need not be forever, you might get fed up at anytime and you need to move on with another person you desire, though, this is common in western world and as common as it is many still frowns against it. In Africa, it is generally not welcomed which makes Africans unique.
You must be ready to let the feelings flow naturally. You must be ready to devote your time and money, you must be ready to give it all of you; you see it is exhausting?
One major thing you need to know like i have said earlier is not to set Conditions for your relationship if you want it to last.
Good looking, sexy long legs, short, tall, dark, 6 packs, good eyes, pink lips and some others you know about can be your desire but might not be fit for your kind of person, don't let that be your main point of attraction in relationship.
Remember you have a huge task to trim your partner to whatever you want no matter the circumstances as it is a world wide belief that love is deeply blind than a blind man.
If you get what you desire in your partner, good for you. There are so many people that desires some attributes in their partner but could not get it because love itself is funny, yet, they are happily married.
Some of this attributes can be lost at any moment, what will happen to you if such happens? Will you leave that person? Love thinks about the other person's emotions, it does not hurt but kills emptiness, sadness and all other negativities of life.
You need to know all the above before you start your relationship in case you want it to last.
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